The ability to converse with people, particularly new people, is more than just a social skill—it is an art. The first step to becoming the person others say they “had a great time talking to” is to simply show interest and be genuinely curious.
Opening Lines
Wonderful conversations aren’t difficult to start. Bypass the traditional “Where are you from?” and “What do you do?” that may daunt the other party and replace it with “How’s that drink/appetizer/artwork/game?” Similarly, asking someone how they know the event host can often lead to finding many things in common. At a networking event, try, “How long have you belonged to this organization?” Stuck at the company Christmas party? Ask co-workers “What exciting project are you working on?” Still feeling tongue-tied? Opt for the tried and true, “Are you having fun?”
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