Have you ever not answered the phone because you couldn’t find it? While searching for the Valentine’s Day centerpiece, have you stumbled over the Christmas wrap purchased at an after-holiday sale two years ago? Ever gone out to dinner because there wasn’t one clean dish in the house? Getting organized is like dieting. We know how to do it and love the results. The problem is getting started. A while ago, we redecorated our kitchen, and in the process, we emptied every cupboard and drawer. When the work was complete, I decided to put things away only as I used them. I quickly realized why it was such a problem to keep the kitchen neat and tidy. We just had too much stuff, and much of it had not been used in years. Getting rid of what we don’t use left so much more space to organize the essentials. Face …