We encounter a dizzying number of people over the course of our lives. In some cases, hopefully a small number, certain types of conflict or tragedy can make the experience uncomfortable. If that occurs, here are suggestions to manage it.
The Ex-Files
“Love Seminar” author Helen Chen says that 85 percent of relationships end badly, making the chances of running into an ex possible when both reside or work in the same area. Unless the breakup was mutually amicable, the best way to minimize an uncomfortable situation is to politely acknowledge each other without breaking stride. If the encounter occurs in an elevator or at a restaurant, pretending you don’t notice them may allow them to avoid feeling uncomfortable….