Dating, or even just making new friends, can be difficult if only because it involves two people wondering what the other one is thinking. We’ve got a few suggestions to make it go smoothly. Slow Is Smooth Whirlwind romances or instant best friendships don’t have the foundation required for a lasting relationship. Take time to discover who you’re dating or considering as a new friend. This allows you to honestly assess if you want to move forward with that person, and if so, how. If you don’t see it working out, be honest with yourself and the other person, ending it cordially, with an effort to remain friendly toward each other. Dress for Success You see this all the time; he arrives for the date wearing torn jeans, a wrinkled shirt, and a baseball cap while she looks like a runway model. Avoid “first date, last date” syndrome by making …