There are some courtesies that used to be considered common, but essential, for children. They seem to be fading away with civility for children and adults alike, and I miss them. I am listing a few of them below. 1. If you say you’ll be there, be there, even if a better offer comes along. 2. If you say you’ll do it, do it, in a timely manner. Whatever you do, give it your best. People are counting on you. 3. Be honest, not sneaky or deceiving or conniving. Silence is not honesty. 4. Spend time with people you love. Without plans to leave too quickly. Without electronics. Be fully engaged with the people you’re with. 5. If you can’t afford it, don’t buy it, leaving others feeling obligated to bail you out. Separate the needs from the wants. 6. There is an old saying, “Your lack of planning does …