Dear June, I have a dying wife. Like many people this happens to, I am broken-hearted over this. She has many health issues and at 71 she could make a difference, but won’t. She eats sugar in all forms and will not stop. I don’t help matters because I buy it for her so she won’t blow a fuse. The fuse is the issue. She wants to die and I can’t stop it. I am 76 and although diabetic, I have good control and great labs. I try to stay calm and turn a blind eye to the name-calling. I need a tool of advice to cope. Sincerely, Gary R Dear Gary, I can understand your heartbreak. Watching some we love suffer is so hard, especially when you are their full-time caregiver, which it sounds like you are. When a loved one is dying, it is most important to give them …