Dear June, I am 11 years old. I have been friends with my cousin (who is 12) since I was 6. But she got an iPhone and my other cousin has one, too. When they are on them, there is conversation, but it is mostly centered on what is on the screen. I feel bad about looking at it and looking at cellphones is somewhat, well … boring (I don’t think I’m allowed to look at them anyway). I do not mind my telling the 12-year-old cousin to put her phone away, sometimes, and when I do she takes it very well, but at least half the time, before I know it, the phone is out again. And with the other girl and when they are together, I’m not so sure about telling them. … Also it’s hard to find other things to do. There is sometimes at least one …