Dear Dr. Chloe,
My relationship is complicated—to say the least. I met this man about 7 years ago, we started as just friends, then began attending church together. We are both Christian. He told me he had been divorced twice. Then I saw something on social media that sent a red flag—his profile said: “married.”
I confronted him—and he said he hadn’t updated his profile. Then he came clean and said he was still married but had been separated since the day after the wedding. I guess she had an affair with a married man—one of her many indiscretions that he had already known about. He said he just had to take care of a few things, then he would file [for divorce]….