Dear Dr. Chloe,
Is there any psychology for getting over a breakup? I have friends that seem able to endure them very easily … but not me. In fact, right now I’m feeling super stuck on a guy from three months ago. We dated for six months, and it was pretty serious (to me, at least). I would never have even called him my boyfriend and quit dating other people unless I seriously felt we had the potential to get married—so the breakup hit me very hard.
Basically, he just ended things by telling me that he cared for me but felt that our spark was gone. This really shocked me, because we both couldn’t stop talking about how much chemistry we had for the whole first couple of months we were dating….