Getting older is going to come with many unwelcome surprises. New aches and pains in places you never knew were possible, a sudden appreciation for 5:00 a.m., and the lack of a desire to shave your now pirate-esque beard. Being a father, though, means being indestructible in the eyes of your children, no matter how old they may be. It is the warmest and most loving burden you can place on your shoulders, and no understanding kid would expect that you do so, but seeing Dad as a strong person certainly helpful. Of course, this doesn’t mean you can’t be vulnerable in front of your family. Quite the opposite, really. But taking care of what ails you is one of the best ways to stay young at heart. Do it for yourself and your family. So, do what exactly?…