In social situations, purses, briefcases, and shoulder bags should be carried on the left side. This keeps the right hand available for handshakes. Here are some other oft-forgotten rules that might be keeping you from being an etiquette virtuoso. Be Present and Attentive Technology can be great, but not when we are too busy paying…

It’s easier for most of us to mind our manners when among friends, family, and co-workers, but what about when we’re out in public, surrounded by strangers? The fact that you will never again encounter most of the people you pass is no excuse to be rude, or even cold and indifferent—plus, you never know…

It’s only natural to get excited when you are having a fun conversation, with thoughts and ideas popping into your head and the words flowing. But be careful not to talk before your conversation partners take a break, intentionally or otherwise interrupting them. Patience Is a Virtue It’s been said many times that we have…

Build mutually beneficial relationships with friends, neighbors, co-workers, club members, students in your classes, and others you come into contact with on a regular basis. This can lead to job opportunities; finding a new car, pet, or apartment; or perhaps even meeting the love of your life. Be Alert Opportunities can pop up fleetingly before…

Life has a way of throwing curveballs at us when we least expect them. But by considering them before they occur, we can react to them in a much more gracious manner. Seeing the Ex It’s sad but true that not all dating relationships are long-term. So what to do when you run into the…

Dressing to go out in public isn’t something many people spend too much time thinking about today—and they should. It’s up to us to set a new standard. Let’s bring back dressing with class, dignity, and traditional values. Out and About Inspiring others starts the moment you step out the door—dressed well. Unfortunately, it’s becoming…

Several weeks ago, my teenage daughter and her friends attended a middle school dance. Junior high social collaborations are a funny thing. Teens and preteens come together to test their moves, look cool, and maybe actually dance with the opposite sex. Though I had been rather sick on the night of the dance and could…

Table manners serve two purposes: to show our respect for others and to refrain from embarrassing ourselves. These principles will have you sitting down in comfort at your next formal dinner. Bon appétit! Arrive on Time The first rule of good culinary manners has nothing to do with food. Your hosts have gone through a…

When a family member, friend, or co-worker is expecting, hosting a shower is a great way to ensure the new parents have the gear they need for the new arrival. Here’s how to make it an unforgettable event. Pick a Date Traditionally, a shower is scheduled to take place four to eight weeks before the…

In a world of near-constant communication, we spend a lot of time talking to others while making calls or responding to texts. Make sure you’re a pleasure to communicate with by following these ironclad rules of phone manners. Respond in a Timely Manner When you see that you’ve missed a call and a voicemail has…