In social situations, purses, briefcases, and shoulder bags should be carried on the left side. This keeps the right hand available for handshakes. Here are some other oft-forgotten rules that might be keeping you from being an etiquette virtuoso. Be Present and Attentive Technology can be great, but not when we are too busy paying…

It’s easier for most of us to mind our manners when among friends, family, and co-workers, but what about when we’re out in public, surrounded by strangers? The fact that you will never again encounter most of the people you pass is no excuse to be rude, or even cold and indifferent—plus, you never know…

Vera Stewart has a motto: “Whatever you do, do it in good taste.” For the Augusta, Georgia, entrepreneur, caterer, TV host, and cookbook writer, that applies to considerations from the palate to presentation, serving, and behavior. Stewart’s personal life and business model are based upon this rule, one that she began cultivating in herself from…

We spend a large amount of time with co-workers, making it important to know how to get along well with all of them at work and while off the clock, too. Keep It Professional It’s no surprise to cross paths with a co-worker with whom you share common hobbies, went to the same school, root…

Being well-groomed goes beyond simply dressing sharp and having well-tended hair and nails. It also means standing up straight and projecting dignity and confidence. Act as if Mom Is Watching A well-groomed person projects confidence in public at all times, which means no fidgeting in your seat, zero tugging at undergarments, no twiddling of thumbs,…

The host or hostess put considerable time, effort, and money into hosting you. Return the kindness by being the best guest ever, starting with sending your RSVP promptly and letting the host know about any food allergies. Then, do the following. Watch the Clock Your hosts went through a lot of effort, so show consideration…

It’s only natural to get excited when you are having a fun conversation, with thoughts and ideas popping into your head and the words flowing. But be careful not to talk before your conversation partners take a break, intentionally or otherwise interrupting them. Patience Is a Virtue It’s been said many times that we have…

Build mutually beneficial relationships with friends, neighbors, co-workers, club members, students in your classes, and others you come into contact with on a regular basis. This can lead to job opportunities; finding a new car, pet, or apartment; or perhaps even meeting the love of your life. Be Alert Opportunities can pop up fleetingly before…

Table manners serve two purposes: to show our respect for others and to refrain from embarrassing ourselves. These principles will have you sitting down in comfort at your next formal dinner. Bon appétit! Arrive on Time The first rule of good culinary manners has nothing to do with food. Your hosts have gone through a…

It’s that time of year again, so here are a few tips on being the favorite guest at any holiday gathering. RSVP Is Not Optional The best hosts will send printed invitations with preaddressed, stamped return envelopes four weeks in advance to allow guests plenty of time to add the party to their schedule. Other…